WOULD YOU EVER LET YOUR EX FIND YOU A NEW B/F OR G/F?
This show in Bravo - "Date My Ex" is all about finding a new mate for your former sig. other...but would you really expect your ex to really have the best intentions for you?
My thoughts...
If I were in the situation it would either have to a) be a woman who I was really really really desperate to get rid of. b) I want to show a woman how good she had it with me and c) that other guys suck!
To devote a whole show to this though, is quite invigorating...and it should answer one of the layers of the question "why?" I mean, it's better than Bobby and Whitney while not being as kick ass as temptation island! You be the judge.
FOR THE LADIES:
5 WAYS TO KNOW IF A GUY IS GOOD IN BED...
So I spend much of my time analyzing everything. I try to do everything I can not to be "that guy..." Sometimes it works out great and other times I know I look like nothing more than an archaic neanderthal...But for those of you men that are on a mission to be close with a woman...and I'm not talking about wearing her jeans emo's...but here are 5 things that you can learn from on how women view all of us!!!
He isn’t afraid to hold your gaze.
This guy is into you, and he’s not afraid to show it. The more he focuses on you, the more intent he is, and the more likely he’ll be interested in proving just how into you he really is. Mind, this doesn’t necessarily mean he’s a great guy, or even a good one – in reality, these types are usually players. Nevertheless, they are usually very, very good in bed.
He’s a good kisser.
Good kisser, meaning, someone who doesn’t just shove their tongue in your mouth and expect you to do something with it. Nuh-uh. This guy takes his time, and uses more lip than he does tongue – and when the kiss ends, you aren't covered from chin to forehead in his saliva.
He’s good at talking dirty.
Most men don’t even attempt this, and those who do often sound silly. But the men who know they’re good in bed are usually very good at telling you what they plan on doing later. If he’s able to convey sexy things to you without sounding silly, he’s probably worth the time. It's worth noting this guy's probably been around the block a few thousand times as well, so make sure he suits up.
He’s tactile.
He wants to hold your hand, slide his arm around your waist (not your shoulders, this is something men do with their mates, not their women), play with your hair, touch your face. Especially when you are kissing. These are good indications he's fabulous in bed. Unless he's groping, in which case he's probably not.
He’s a good listener.
He listens. Even if you’re talking about something he really doesn’t give a toss about. That’s not to say he pretends – he listens because he gives a toss about you. If he doesn’t care about anything you have to say, he’s not going to care about anything you want, either. A man who listens to your words will also notice those unspoken nuances as well, which are very necessary when rolling around on a king-sized mattress.
Tomorrow...5 ways to know how bad he is in bed...blaaaaaah
